In a Me Too world, is it worth exploring the power dynamics that exist when an older man pursues a much younger woman? Memoirist Joyce Maynard thinks so. Salinger when he was 52 and she was an year-old aspiring writer. Their love story was short-lived.
8 things you need to know about dating an older man
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You'd think that by the time a man is 40, he'd be focused, mature, and established. Ladies, don't get your feelings hurt when real life snaps you out of fantasy and back to reality. There is no Mr. Perfect out there for you in the dating world! Beyond that, age has little if anything to do with a man being focused, mature, or established.
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In case you missed it, big age gaps are having a major cultural moment right now. When my last relationship ended, older friends and family members all said the same thing about my year-old ex: People have held men to lower maturity standards for as long as I can remember. Naturally, this is a problematic stereotype on multiple levels, from its reinforcement of a gender binary to its biological essentialism and casual refusal to hold men responsible for their behavior.
Dating is difficult. Finding someone who is compatible, has some emotional maturity and who can be a life partner you can count on is a struggle. Some of us are old souls and mesh well with those who are a little bit older and wiser. And this puts you right in the bucket to consider dating an older man. There can be an allure that comes with dating someone older.